Sunday, August 06, 2006
Should there be grey, in between black and white?
Confused. I used to think, that it would be completely stupid and would take the most inflexible person, to see the world only in black and white. Where wrong would definitely be wrong, right would definitely be right. There cant be any tad of right in that wrong. Kay, I understand it sounds extremely confusing, but if you get it you get it, you dont get it then 'bobian'. lol. And I would say that Miss Lai probably looked this sort of person the most. No offence, but, I saw as that once, I dont know about now. But her way of dealing things was, too inflexible I guess. She saw right as right, wrong as wrong, and there was no way of 'negotiation-possible' by any way, whenever it's her. And for her depriving me of a chance last year, I pretty much disliked her for some time. (hate is too strong a word, limxy-taught) She saw it as I killed a chance so I should not be given a chance or whatsoever. Case-closed. No argument. Well, I have no qualms about this because I am pretty much at fault for being totally nonchalant at my studies also. But yes, she proved that everything was either black or white to her, during the Sarawak trip. Some rules she imposed during our hotel stay. Hmm. (I reiterate that this is not objective towards miss lai and of no offence.)
Anyway, on to the 'grey in between black and white' part. These people dont draw an ultimate line between things, example, they would say "she isn't entirely wrong; she may have killed someone, but she had to kill to save another one." That's grey for me. Hmmmm.
I find it extremely confusing. Like how, we demand a little flexibility at times, and when we do realise, that being flexible all the time, backfires, because people do find loopholes and take advantage of it. But be rigid and firm, and people call you inflexible. Like I thought of miss lai. Hmmm. Food for thought.
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